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What inspired The Choice?

The Choice was created after two separate but equally inspirational meetings with the British Disabled Ski Team and Dr Janet Gray.

Listening to them speak about the things that had happened to them in their life would be enough for some people to hide away from the world and believe they couldn't achieve anything.

The British Disabled Ski Team had people who hurtled down a mountain on skis yet either had limbs missing or were completely unable to see.

Dr Janet Gray was an ordinary person who at the age of 21 lost her eyesight. At this point she had to make a choice. Change everything in her life and feel helpless and sorry for herself and believe that was it, or she could learn to waterski (having never done it before) and go on to become world champion (breaking virtually every bone in her body along the way)

Interestingly she chose the second option.

Both the British Disabled Ski Team and Dr Janet Gray realised that, 

"It's not what happens to you, it's how you deal with what happens that matters"

The Choice was created after realising that many people really started living happy lives and achieved what they wanted as a direct result of a life changing event. Instead of moaning about what had happened and getting upset with it, they came to terms with it and went out and took on the world, making the best of what they did have instead of focusing on what they didn't have.

My question to people is why wait? Why wait until something like these events happen before you really start to live? Why not live the life you want and be happy now, whilst you have what you have today?

All it takes is a slight shift in the way you think, because the way you think has a direct impact on your own attitude and behaviours.







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What is The Choice?


The Choice is a mindset that allows you to own and be 100% responsible for your own actions and reactions to things that happen to you.

It's based around Five Philosophies that allow you to take control of your life and gives you the ability and belief that you can achieve whatever your want, from being the perfect parent to the next Richard Branson.

When things happen in your life the ONLY question you need to answer is...

What are you going to do about it?

The Choice helps you answer this question so step inside take a look at the Five Philosophies and contact me today to start creating the future you want.

The Choice is centered around Five Philosophies. These Five Philosophies invite you to explore what they mean for you and your own life and how they can make a powerful difference.
 

1: Reality & Your Reality are Different
  • Explore why two people can see the same event but react differently
  • What makes up your reality?
  • Time to have thoughts about your thoughts
  • Separate reality from your reality

2: Nothing has Meaning until YOU give it Meaning
  • Learn the four most powerful words
  • Banish your choice thieves
  • Own your response
  • Stay resourceful no matter what
  3: Everything is Exactly as it Should be
  • Accept or deny reality
  • What needs to be in place to be happy
  • Discover the secret of happiness
  • Why shout at reality?
 4: The Past does NOT Equal the Future
  • Unleash your behavioural flexibility
  • Let go of your limiting beliefs
  • The next thing counts
  • React or Respond?
 5: Do the RIGHT THING, Right!
  • Discover the three keys to success
  • Power of thought is nothing without action
  • Why 'try' does not equal success
  • Be the change you want to see in the world





























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